TIP JAR: WHAT ARE YOU GIVING?

WHAT ARE YOU GIVING?

written by Udokwe Precious

A relationship deserves the all of the man and woman, their very existence, and what they do at every time should be of importance to them both.

Many relationships today suffer as a result of one leaving out some of their past experiences, refusing to give full details of the present and postponing their future plans till it has being achieved. This should not be, because every pieces of information about you is as important as “You” in the life of your spouse.

Oh! A very funny and important aspect of a person’s life that is most often hidden is the financial status. I laugh when I hear couple or spouses fight over the phrase “I don’t know how much he has in his account and he knows mine”. I don’t want to be bias, so I will address this to both gender, but it seems it’s really the women that complain about men (lol).

Well! If truly there is love in your heart towards your spouse, then your financial status shouldn't be hidden. What you are earning, your daily expenditures, your loss and gain and so on. This makes your spouse feel you trust her with your “money” and you are not doing anything un-budgeted with your money.

Everything you are, should be shared with your spouse (your successes and failures, your past, present, and future, your fears and strength and so on).Please do not leave out any details about you, because what you think is not important could be the most important and the consequence of hiding it can be losing that special person you hold dearly in your heart.

If you are doing this already, keep it up and if not, start today and you will see things change positively in your relationship.

Thanks

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